Women??? I need advise on my wife please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11?

you know what, sometimes when you've been with each other for a while, the becomes routine and she may feel a little shy on trying somehting new, which in turn makes a little less apealing. you should come up on something totaly new, make her look forward to it, go take a shower with her when the kids are asleep, then get down and nasty, let it be ALL about her, and when i say get down, i mean GET DOWN (THERE). and please her, it may take an hour of tounge action but it will pay off, the worse that could happen is she will expect it all the time, and at least you can get it all the time :) another thing, you're taking care of the kids, so she know you'll be home all the time, she doesn't miss you, she knows where you'll be. Go out and do some thing. you say she goes to work AND hangs out with friends, ok, that's cool, how about one day she goes to work, and YOU go out with your friends when she comes back? make her remember what it's like to stay with the kids, you may also need to be a little macho, say you go out to the grocery store with the kids, make her remember that you are desirable to other women, mention as on off handed comment how the cashier was checking you out, then balance it out with how she complementad the kids after, as if it was inncoent all along. even if it's a lie, and if things go wrong say she get's a little too jealosue , say you made it up! you just wanted to get her attention, and then tell her everything you've said in your post, sometimes it's easier to open up when you're "making up" after a fight. hope this helped :)